Your Ultimate Guide to Lai See Giving in 2026

How Much to Give to These Lovely 'Familiar Strangers'?

It totally depends on how close you are to them and how well you know them. A general rule is $20-$50. If you can afford more, go for it! This is your building staff's year 13' bonus, after all. If they're usually asleep, $10 is just fine!

How About Colleagues?

You only need to give to those you manage or who are 'under' you in the work hierarchy. A fair amount is $100-$500, but more greases the wheels. You might get some random employees you don't know jumping on this if you're high-up, so have some spare red packets ready.

What About Family Members?

This is where it gets a little more complicated. Anyone married gives to those younger and unmarried. It's perfectly fine to give as a couple. Married couples can also give to those older and unmarried—like a maiden aunt—but it can feel a bit weird. Judge the situation accordingly.

Parents give to their own children as part of a tea ceremony. Children are expected to pour tea for their parents, wearing traditional Chinese dress. They say some good luck messages—like the ones written on the fai chun but a bit longer: "Happy New Year, Dad! I hope the tax man doesn't find your second business." That sort of thing.

What Do I Put in the Packet?

Clean, crisp, and ideally brand new banknotes. A 'new look' note is also acceptable, but definitely not a crinkled-up one. And please, no coins! You're not 10. Wherever possible, avoid all iterations of the number 4. The numbers 4, 14, and 24 are associated with death among Cantonese-speaking people because of how they sound when spoken. Don't give out any 'must die' notes!

When Does All This Start and End?

Chinese New Year 2026 officially starts on 17th February. From this date, you can start handing out the lai see, aiming to have them all distributed by 3rd March. Make sure you don't start gifting before 17th February, or you might feel the need to gift again to the same people. Keep a little bundle of red packets on you for just-in-case situations to avoid any embarrassment.

How Do I Know When to Give a Red Packet?

Most times, it's pretty obvious. Other times, someone might approach you saying "gung hei fat choi" or "sun lean fai lot" with their hands clasped. That means it's lai see time, and it's your moment to shine!

What If Someone Gives Me One?

BOOM TIME! You're young, single, and/or employed. Take the lai see with both hands and say "dod ser sai"—with the last 'd' almost silent. Under no circumstances should you open it in front of the giver; that's just rude!

Tips for a Successful Lai See Experience

Embrace the Spirit of Giving

Lai See is more than just a monetary exchange; it's a way to spread joy and good fortune. Think of it as a warm hug wrapped in red paper. When you give, you're not just handing over cash; you're sharing blessings and positive vibes.

Get Creative with Your Red Packets

Why not jazz up your lai see packets? You can find some really cute designs that reflect your personality or even the spirit of the New Year. It’s a small touch, but it makes the whole experience feel more special.

Keep the Tradition Alive

As we navigate through modern life, it's easy to forget the traditions that bind us. By participating in Lai See giving, you're keeping the spirit of the New Year alive. Plus, it’s a great conversation starter!

Don't Stress About the Amount

Remember, it’s the thought that counts. Whether you give $20 or $200, what matters is the intention behind it. So, don’t sweat it too much. Just enjoy the process!

Happy Chinese New Year to you and your families! Wishing you all great health, wealth, and happiness for the year of the snake.

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